Young people start having sex later, but feel more pressure than ever. Perhaps that is a sign that we do not talk too much, but too little about values. The so-called 'old' Christian view on sexuality appears surprisingly liberating today.
Values and norms are often complementary, sometimes competitive. Standards should be based on shared values, but are often only necessary because the values are no longer sufficiently shared and supported. Standards can be incorporated into rules and laws and must be enforced by the government. Values are shared and as long as they do not require standardization, the state should take its hands off them...